{"id":109,"date":"2021-12-14T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-13T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/?p=109"},"modified":"2026-09-12T09:54:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-12T09:54:09","slug":"post22","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/?p=109","title":{"rendered":"Better decissions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>MAKING BETTER DECISSIONS \ud83e\udd14<\/p>\n<p>You should have to find a way to think about the rational long-term consequences instead of being absorbed by short-term emotions.<\/p>\n<p>\u270d\ufe0fThe 10\u201310\u201310 RULE will help you do that&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s as simple as effective. When you face a difficult decision, you split it into three parts. You ask yourself:<\/p>\n<p>HOW WILL I FEEL ABOUT THIS IN TEN MINUTES, TEN MONTHS, AND TEN YEARS FROM NOW\u2049\ufe0f<\/p>\n<p>1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3 MIN: Your EMOTIONS will still determine how you feel about it in ten minutes. It\u2019s a good point of reference and way to gauge how you feel about the situation RIGHT NOW.<\/p>\n<p>1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3 MONTHS: Your BEHAVIOR is likely to have a big, albeit different impact on how you feel. Your short-term emotions are gone, and the MID-TO LONG-TERM impacts of your choice have manifested themselves in your life.<\/p>\n<p>1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3YEARS: Your choice will either be completely irrelevant or potentially life-altering, with very little in between. It\u2019s a good way to gauge the LONG-TERM significance of a choice before you spend weeks racking your brain about it.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s special about these three timeframes is they let you assess your decision from three different viewpoints. They give you a very balanced, comprehensive, and realistic overview of how your choice will play out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MAKING BETTER DECISSIONS \ud83e\udd14 You should have to find a way to think about the rational long-term consequences instead of being absorbed by short-term emotions. \u270d\ufe0fThe 10\u201310\u201310 RULE will help you do that&#8230; It\u2019s as simple as effective. When you face a difficult decision, you split it into three parts. You ask yourself: HOW WILL I FEEL ABOUT THIS IN TEN MINUTES, TEN MONTHS, AND TEN YEARS FROM NOW\u2049\ufe0f 1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3 MIN: Your EMOTIONS will still determine how you feel about it in ten minutes. It\u2019s a good point of reference and way to gauge how you feel about the situation RIGHT NOW. 1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3 MONTHS: Your BEHAVIOR is likely to have a big, albeit different impact on how you feel. Your short-term emotions are gone, and the MID-TO LONG-TERM impacts of your choice have manifested themselves in your life. 1\ufe0f\u20e30\ufe0f\u20e3YEARS: Your choice will either be completely irrelevant or potentially life-altering, with very little in between. It\u2019s a good way to gauge the LONG-TERM significance of a choice before you spend weeks racking your brain about it. What\u2019s special about these three timeframes is they let you assess your decision from three different viewpoints. They give you a very balanced, comprehensive, and realistic overview of how your choice will play out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,4,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-109","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-corporate-business","category-leadership","category-personal-development"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=109"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":681,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/109\/revisions\/681"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rafaguilarc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}